Loneliness During the Holidays Abroad: How to Cope with Homesickness as an Expat

Loneliness During the Holidays Abroad: How to Cope with Homesickness as an Expat

Feelings of sadness, homesickness, or isolation are valid. Here’s how to find comfort, connection, and meaning during the festive season—no matter where in the world you are.

The Emotional Reality of Holidays Abroad

Living abroad can be an incredible adventure—full of cultural exploration, independence, and personal growth. But when the holiday season arrives, it often brings waves of loneliness, nostalgia, and a longing for home.

You might miss the familiar rhythm of family traditions, the smell of home-cooked meals, or the simple comfort of being surrounded by people who’ve known you for years. And while you may try to stay positive, this time of year can feel deeply bittersweet.

If you’re struggling with holiday loneliness as an expat, you’re not alone. These feelings are incredibly common—and you deserve gentle, practical ways to navigate them.

7 Ways to Cope with Loneliness During the Holidays Abroad

1. Acknowledge How You’re Feeling
   Trying to “push through” or pretend you’re fine often backfires. Instead, name what’s coming up:
   • “I’m feeling homesick.”
   • “I miss my family.”
   • “This holiday feels different, and that’s hard.”
     Naming your feelings is the first step in validating them—without judgment.
2. Create New, Meaningful Traditions
   No, you can’t fully recreate holidays from home—but you can create something new:
   • Host a holiday dinner with other expats or local friends
   • Bake festive treats that remind you of home
   • Attend local holiday markets or community events
     You’re allowed to blend the old with the new.
3. Reach Out to Others in Your Area
   Loneliness thrives in isolation. If you're spending the holidays abroad, chances are others around you are too.
   • Invite a friend or two for a cozy dinner or movie night
   • Join an expat meet-up or Facebook group holiday event
   • Offer to support someone else who may be struggling
     You don’t need a big circle—one genuine connection goes a long way.
4. Stay Emotionally Connected to Loved Ones
   Even if you can’t be physically together, you can still share moments:
   • Schedule video calls during meals or holiday gift exchanges
   • Watch a movie “together” online
   • Send a handwritten note or care package
     Small rituals of connection matter—especially from afar.
5. Embrace Solitude as a Sacred Space
   If you’re spending the holidays alone, try reframing solitude as a chance to reconnect with yourself.
   • Journal by candlelight
   • Cook a special meal for one
   • Take a nighttime walk to enjoy the lights or stars
     Loneliness and solitude are not the same thing—and your presence can be enough.
6. Practice Self-Compassion
   You might feel like you should be having the perfect holiday. But there’s no right way to do the holidays abroad.
   Remind yourself:
   • “I’m doing my best in a complex situation. My feelings are valid.”
     Let yourself be human, not perfect.
7. Seek Support if You Need It
   If the sadness feels heavy or persistent, it’s okay to ask for help. Speaking with a therapist—especially one who understands expat life—can help you explore what’s underneath and learn tools to manage emotional overwhelm.

Final Thoughts: You Are Not Alone

The holidays can be beautiful and painful. Missing home doesn’t mean you’re not thriving—it means you’re human.

By acknowledging your feelings, building small rituals of connection, and caring for yourself with gentleness, you can make this season one of inner growth, resilience, and maybe even a few unexpected moments of joy.

Therapy for Expats Navigating the Holidays

I work with expats across Europe and beyond, offering online therapy that supports emotional regulation, homesickness, cultural transition, and identity rebuilding. If you’re struggling this holiday season, you don’t have to do it alone.
Book a free consultation today.

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